Showing posts with label Aunty Bessie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Aunty Bessie. Show all posts

Sunday, 4 August 2013

Elizabeth (Aunty Bessie) Sessler 1916-4-27 - 2013-6-30 R.I.P.

Aunty Bessie passed away in the early hours of Sunday morning, June 30, 2013. She died of pneumonia in her own bed , in her own room at Summerfield Park, exactly as she had hoped and prayed for, and our close, mutual friend, Pat Prinsloo, was with her at the end. She was 97 years old. According to Pat she spent all her waking time of the last few hours in prayer, aware that this was probably the end.


Although she was practically blind, only able to discern light and dark shapes, and even then only when the light was good, and although she was starting to become hard of hearing, nevertheless, her mind was sharp as a tack and you had better tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth or she would catch you out if you just tried to fob her off.

She spent much of her waking time in intercession, praying not only for people in need that she knew but also nationally and internationally for people who were victims of floods, earthquakes, fires and civil wars. She listened to the news and was up on national and international affairs although she was fed up with politicians of all stripes, particularly where there was corruption and public waste. However, she never got used to calling it Zimbabwe - it was always Rhodesia for her.

Her reputation as an intercessor got to be quite awesome and people sought her out to pray for them and their needs. Once you got on to her intercession list the only way you came off was if she moved you to her thanksgiving list. She would follow up and ask how it was going with such-and-such. If you told her that the issue had resolved itself some time back she would become indignant and ask why you had never told her. What must God think of her, she would say, asking him for things that he had already answered instead of thanking him? How could she thank God if you did not tell her that her prayers had been answered?



The three sisters: Marjorie, Ethel, Bessie

Bessie the 'Gal - Durban Bay
Aunty Bessie lived a long and varied life with many ups and downs, a lot of enjoyment, fun and celebration but also a lot of hardship and pain woven throughout. Right to the end Aunty Bessie always had something to get up for in the morning. She was a real human being and daughter of Eve who came to know the loving mercy of God and the joy of sharing that with others. I still ask her to intercede for me.

Tuesday, 17 July 2012

Weather Opposites


The following is a recent facebook chat about the weather that I thought might be interesting for some. Temperatures are quoted in degrees Centigrade. I've always been fascinated with how difficult it is to recall the "feel" of the extreme temperature that is the opposite of what I am feeling at a moment in time. Joeys is Johannesburg.

Sunday 15 July
Terry - Canada
What a beautiful storm. Lots of rain and thunder; complete with birds singing afterwards. Well, blue jays squawking rather than cuckoos, but it still calls for Beethoven's 6th...

Cynthia - South Africa
Sounds good. We are freezing here in Joeys. 5 degrees outside.

Terry - Canada
I was speaking to my Aunty Bessie yesterday. At 96 she is really suffering with the cold and is afraid to use the heater too much because of the cost.

Alice - Canada
I would give anything for 5 degrees......ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!

Monday
Terry - Canada
Alice, your wish will be granted in January !

Tuesday
Peter - South Africa
I'm always careful of using the word "freezing" in the presence of Canadians and other far-northerners, but I did experience -3 in Oudtshoorn over the weekend. It was freezing.

Terry - Canada
Pete - you don't have to be overly cautious. Even in extreme cold we are still warm in our homes. I felt colder in my home in SA when the temp was +1 than at home in Canada when it's -20. However, I do feel sorry in the cold weather for people with outdoor occupations. It can be brutal with the wind and chill factor.

Wednesday

Peter - South Africa
Terry - you're right about feeling cold in our homes. Someone from England told me that it seems South Africans (try to) ignore the cold rather than accommodate it. I thinks that's because for 10 months of the year we're just right or else trying to cool down.
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Thursday
Terry - Canada
I don't know about elsewhere, but Canada seems to be at the other extreme. In the cold of winter it is not uncommon for homes to be heated to 23-24 deg. In the heat of summer homes are often cooled down to 18 deg. The big stores seem to be the worst offenders. That has to be a factor in Canada having one of the worst per capita rates for global warming CO2 emissions. See http://www.google.ca/publicdata.

Friday, 27 April 2012

Happy 96th, Aunty Bessie

Today Aunty Bessie turned ninety-six (96) years old!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, AUNTY BESSIE !!!
Aunty Bessie in her early twenties, Durban Bay

Friday, 20 April 2012

Aunty Bessie with her present

The son of Aunty Bessie's neighbour sent us this picture with the comment:
We just wanted to send you a photo of how cute Bessie looks in the gown you gave her.
Regards
Ken